We’re here to talk about “butt stuff” and by that, we mean
Why is “butt stuff” suddenly becoming more mainstream? Well, it could be that more men and women are just now discovering the pleasures of anal stimulation. If you’re new to the party, we’ve got everything you need to know about
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For most of history, anal sex or anal play has been seen as taboo or unnatural. Today, men and women are much more adventurous. Anal play being taboo may be why so many adults enjoy it, though it likely has more to do with the nerve endings in the anus that respond well to stimulation. These nerve endings can even produce what is called an anal orgasm when stimulated correctly. Increased pleasure should be enough of a reason to want to delve into ass-eating techniques. Why stick to one hole when you can pleasure both?
Ass Eating Hygiene
Before giving or getting a rim job from your partner, it’s important to consider hygiene. Though ideally personal hygiene should be considered before performing any sex act,
To avoid this problem, make sure you and your partner wash thoroughly before either one of you considers
Avoid Certain Foods
Eating the right foods before an ass-eating can make or break your experience. It’s best to avoid foods that give you an upset stomach or make you gassy. We’re all human and sometimes embarrassing accidents happen. It’s also a good idea to avoid
Facesitting, also known as queening, is an oral sex position often performed on a female partner. In the facesitting position, the giving partner lies on their back while the female partner straddles their face with her knees. The giving partner is then able to reach her vagina and perform oral sex. The facesitting technique can easily be adjusted to work as an ass-eating position for either gender.
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Another option for
The doggy style sex position is one of the most popular sex positions for men and women alike. It makes for awesome deep vaginal penetration and doubles as an anal sex position.
What’s better than one partner
Legs Over the Head
The legs over the head position leaves the receiving partner wide open for getting the most pleasure from
The legs over the head position works well for oral sex as well. However, if your partner performs oral sex and anilingus on you, be sure they don’t alternate between your anus and your genitals. You could spread bacteria from the anus to your vagina, which could cause a vaginal infection. Transferring bacteria from the anus to the penis could also lead to infection. If you and your partner are going for a double whammy, make sure you’re
A queening stool is sex furniture used for facesitting. The stool is a small chair with a slit down the middle that leaves the receiving partner’s genitals and anus exposed. The receiving partner will sit on the stool while the giving partner lies below with their face beneath their partner’s exposed anus.
A queening stool makes the facesitting position easier on both the receiving and giving partners. The receiving partner can sit comfortably while the stool supports their weight. The giving partner will also benefit from the stool as they will not have to bear their partner’s weight on their face. Queening stools work well for everyone but maybe especially useful for heavier partners.
Ass Eating Techniques
Use More Than Your Tongue
Change Up the Speed, Direction, and Pressure
Excite your partner by changing up the speed, direction, and pressure of your tongue as you’re
Use All of Your Tongue
Flatten your tongue against their anus so they can feel the full extent of your tongue’s surface area. They’ll love the feeling of your wet, soft tongue encompassing the whole of their anus. Gently move your flattened tongue up and down their anus and crack for an extra wet ass-eating session.
Try Rimming Lube
For extra fun, check out rimming lube. Rimming lube is flavored lube that is made specifically for
Use Ass Eating As Foreplay
Additionally, the anus does not self-lubricate like the vagina. To make anal penetration less painful for the receiver, it’s important to provide sufficient stimulation and lubrication.
Whether you’re giving or receiving a rim job, it’s important to relax. Leave your inhibitions behind and let your instincts take over. Being too much in your head can negatively impact your sexual experience, especially while
Communication is the key to a satisfying sex life, even when it comes to
Similarly, you should be checking in with your partner when you are on the giving end. While
How to Talk to Your Partner About
Sex is a tricky subject to talk about, even with a partner you trust. Sharing your sexual fantasies with them can be scary. You may be worried they will judge you or be repulsed by your desires.
Try talking to your partner about trying annilingus when you are both alone and relaxed. If your partner is relaxed and not distracted, they will be more receptive to your ideas. Explain to them that you want to try something new in the bedroom. In a healthy relationship, both partners should feel comfortable enough with one another to express their sexual needs. If this is something that’s been on your mind, let them know. Explain to them what
After you express yourself, give your partner time to think about it. Understand that not everyone will be into