How To Give Your Man a Fast Blowjob

Giving your man a blowjob is exactly that, a job. Even if you thoroughly enjoy going down on you man, there’s no denying that it can be work. Every man is different. Some orgasm quickly from penile stimulation while others take a bit longer. A fast blowjob will benefit both you and your partner. He’ll orgasm more quickly while you don’t have to work as hard. Even if you are confident in your blowjob skills, a fast blowjob requires a little more technique. Keep reading to learn how to give your man a fast blowjob that will be more enjoyable for both of you.

How To Give Your Man a Fast Blowjob

Give Him a Show

The trick to a fast blowjob is showing your man how much you like giving him head. Whether you do or don’t. If you’re not enthusiastic about giving your partner a fast blowjob, he’ll know. It may be difficult for him to get turned on if you look bored, uncomfortable, or worse, disgusted. While you should never do anything you don’t want to do, sometimes we do things for the ones we love because they enjoy it. Sometimes that means oral sex. And if oral sex, isn’t you favorite, you have even more reason to want to get the job done quickly. Suck it up (literally) and pretend like you love giving your man head. Put on a show and moan about how much you love having his huge (say it, he’ll love it!) cock in your mouth. Give him a sultry look while you’re going down on him as if giving him a blowjob turns you on as well. Showing his penis some love will stroke his ego. He’ll get enjoyment out of seeing you enjoy his love weapon. And the more excited he gets, well, the faster he’ll get off.

Don’t Skip Foreplay

Many men need a little foreplay to get the juices flowing. Like women, foreplay is important for men too. Sex should be a fun experience meant to connect you with your partner and share mutual pleasure. Rushing through it takes away half the fun. Plus, more foreplay means less time your mouth needs to be on your partner’s penis. Getting him extra excited before you go down on him is key to making it a fast blowjob. Start your sex session off with some teasing before you go for the grand finale. Do a striptease for him, engage in a hot make out session, and then explore each other’s bodies. Slowly work your way down from his neck to his stomach, to his groin area, planting kisses or love bites along the way. Spend extra time near his groin and inner thigh (known erogenous zones). Lightly flick or circle your tongue in this area or give it a sultry massage. When he looks like he can’t take anymore, begin giving him head. It will be a fast blowjob for the both of you.

Just the Tip

Deep throat may have been one of the most popular porn films of all time. But how efficient is deep throat for giving your man a fast blowjob? While he might enjoy watching you take all of him inside your mouth, he won’t feel much stimulation. The male penis contains the most sensation just at the very tip, or the head. The head, also known as the glans penis, has 4,000 nerve endings. It’s the most sensitive part of the penis and the part that should receive the most attention. Deepthroating your man won’t provide nearly as much sensation or stimulation for a fast blowjob as focusing your attention on the glans penis.

A technique for great oral sex is using the tip of your tongue and circling it around the tip of the glans penis. Vary in intensity, direction, and speed to keep him on his toes. You can alternate from circling the tip with your tongue, to sucking on it, to flicking it with your tongue. Get creative and have fun with the various ways you can stimulate the most sensitive part of his penis. He’ll be squirming with pleasure which will ultimately mean a fast blowjob for you.

Use Your Hands, Woman!

Blowjobs are tiring. There is only so long you can continuously go down on your man without your mouth becoming exhausted. Give your mouth a break by switching it up and using your hands as well. Start off by going down on your partner to get his penis nice and lubricated. Then switch to giving him a handjob, paying close attention to the tip of his penis. Alternate between a handjob and fast blowjob to keep him guessing. You can even try doing both at the same time. Put your mouth around the tip of his penis and use your hand to stroke his shaft. He’ll love getting a double whammy that will likely send him over the edge sooner. And, giving the ol’ glock glock 3000 (look it up, trust us) is sure to drive him crazy enough to provide just as much enthusiasm to your pretty kitty with his, now, wagging tongue.

Stimulate Yourself

Men get off on seeing you get off. There is nothing sexier for your man than to watch you enjoy yourself and orgasm, whether he helped you get there or not. If you want to give your man a fast blowjob, focus on your own pleasure as well as his. Position yourself so that you can stimulate your clit either with your fingers or vibrating sex toy. Let him watch you moan with pleasure while you’re pleasuring him. Take a break long enough to tell him how close you are to orgasming and that you want to finish together. He’ll go insane listening to your sounds and watching you shudder and writhe from your own orgasm. For a fast blowjob, show him how you like it while giving him what he likes.

Lick It, Lick It Good

Make it a fast blowjob by licking your man’s penis like it’s the most delicious lollipop you’ve ever tasted. The top half of your tongue has more texture due to the 10,000 plus taste buds. Use it to lick your partner’s penis from the bottom to the very tip. You’ll create a ton of anticipation and give your man a show at the same time. Additionally, all that licking will create a lot of saliva, which makes for natural lubricant. Lubricant is essential for a fast blowjob as it keeps things moist. It also makes it easier to switch to giving him a handjob when your mouth gets tired. However, choking on it as if your life depends on it is just as effective for that slippy-slide in your mouth.

Don’t Forget the Balls

Men’s testicles (balls) are highly sensitive and contain a lot of nerve endings that often get ignored. Every man is different, but some men thoroughly enjoy their partner getting handsy with their balls. Your man’s testicles will not be as sensitive as his glans penis, but they’re still worth playing with. For best results, try playing with your partner’s sack after you’ve gotten him warmed up with a fast blowjob. Make sure he’s nice and excited, then move down to his balls. Try using different techniques for stimulating them. Start by delivering gentle caresses with the tip of your tongue. Then gently suck them one at a time. When they’re properly lubricated, you can alternate between oral sex and using your hands. Try gently stroking them, caressing them, or cupping them in your hands. Simultaneously you can use your mouth to go down on his dick. The new and exciting sensation of having his testicles played with will guarantee a fast blowjob that he’ll least expect.

Use Every Part of Your Mouth

Most men love getting a blowjob. The sensation of their cock in your mouth reminds them of being in your vagina. They love the warmth and the wetness as well as watching you go down on them. Make the most of your blowjob by using all your mouth for stimulation. Guide your partner’s penis inside your mouth until the tip is touching the roof of your mouth. The roof of your mouth has ridges that give it texture. Your partner will love feeling the unexpected texture on the tip of his penis while you’re using your tongue to stroke his shaft. And for an even more pussy-like feel, move his penis over to the inside of your cheek. The warm, soft tissue will remind him of being inside you as well as provide him the view of his dick straining under your skin, because, you know, it’s huge!. A fast blowjob is inevitable when you use multiple techniques to make him orgasm.

Make It a Fast Blowjob With Menthol

Menthol is used in many medications, candies, and liqueurs. Its minty taste is associated with a spicy sensation that triggers the cold receptors when it comes into contact with skin. If you’ve ever used an icy-hot patch, you’ll be familiar with the feeling. The icy-hot feeling on your partner’s penis can be exciting and stimulating. Make it a fast blowjob by sucking on a mint, rinsing your mouth with mouthwash, or drinking a cup of peppermint tea before giving him head. It will be a sensation he’s not used to feeling on his man parts. That combined with the warm and wet feeling of your tongue will send him reeling with pleasure. Of course, mention it beforehand; some might night enjoy the feel of frostbite on their precious member.

Make it Happen!

Watch His Reaction

Giving your man a fast blowjob entails knowing what he likes. If you’re unsure of what he likes, ask him to tell you. Before you go down on him, tell him to guide you on what feels good for him. The more verbal his communication with you is, the easier your “job” will be. But you should also be vigilant of his nonverbal communication when you’re giving him a fast blowjob. Watch for sudden jerks, twitches, moans, or heavy breathing. If any of these nonverbal cues intensify while you’re doing something, then you’re doing something right. Do more of what you’re doing, and he will orgasm faster.

Keep It Simple

The 69 sex position might look hot in porn film but in reality it sucks. The 69-sex position involves both partners giving oral sex at the same time. To do so, your bodies will be intertwined in a way that looks like the number 69. While mutual oral sex might sound like an awesome idea, the position can be more uncomfortable than it is sexy. Also, each partner will be focusing on giving their partner pleasure, making it more difficult to focus on their own pleasure. If you want to make it a fast blowjob, skip the 69 or any other complicated sex positions that will serve as more of a distraction than a pleasurable experience. Keep it simple and focus all your attention on giving head to your partner. Let him know he can relax and let you do the work. The more attention he can give to his pleasure, the faster he’ll orgasm.

More Oral Sex Tips for a Fast Blowjob

Don’t Brush Your Teeth

Bacteria, viruses, and STIs can easily be transmitted from your mouth to your partner’s penis and vice-versa through small cuts or sores on your gums, tongue, or mouth. Brushing your teeth right before oral sex can cause these sores to open and bleed. You’ll be more susceptible to contracting as well as spreading harmful bacteria or STIs. To avoid this, refrain from brushing your teeth for at least an hour before or after giving oral sex. If you feel that you must freshen up your mouth before giving a fast blowjob, opt for mouthwash or a mint instead. But don’t pull out the floss. Flossing can also cause gums or sores to bleed and should be avoided before giving your man a fast blowjob.

You Don’t Have to Swallow

A fast blowjob does not mean you must swallow your partner’s cum. While the practice is common in porn, you shouldn’t feel pressured to incorporate it into your sex life. Some couples may find the act of swallowing a sexy turn-on, but it’s not for everyone. Not swallowing won’t affect your ability to give your man a hot, fast blowjob he won’t forget. Before you go down on your partner, ask him to tell you before he’s about to climax. Give yourself time to sit back and direct his load elsewhere. You could also try switching from your mouth to your hand when you can tell he’s getting close. That way he will climax in your hand as opposed to your mouth. If he does come in your mouth, spit it out in a tissue or towel or excuse yourself and spit it out in the bathroom.

Don’t Feel Bad If He Can’t Stay Hard

Erections are a tricky thing for many men. A man’s ability to stay erect during sex has to do with a lot more than sexual attraction or sexual sensation. Age, alcohol, drugs or medications, or depression are all factors that can make a man impotent. If your partner can’t stay hard no matter how good your fast blowjob techniques are, it’s not you. Remember that sex is not a porn film. In real life, sex is sometimes messy, awkward, or uncomfortable. Not every oral sex session will be amazing for either one of you. That’s okay because we all have our down days. If your man becomes soft while you’re giving your all, don’t stress. Instead, opt for an intense makeout or cuddle session. Or have him switch to pleasuring you. We can’t always predict how our body will react during sex, but it doesn’t mean our partner (or ourselves) is at fault.

It Doesn’t Always Need To Result in Orgasm

Sure, the goal of giving your man a fast blowjob is orgasm, but it doesn’t always have to be. Everyone has their time limit when it comes to giving sexual pleasure. As much as we want to please our partner, there is only so much we can give before it becomes too uncomfortable for us. Not all men orgasm from oral sex alone. Every person is different when it comes to what feels best for them. If you’ve been giving your man a fast blowjob but seem to be getting nowhere, it’s okay to stop. A fast blowjob feels great for him regardless of whether he orgasms. Besides, there are other ways for him to achieve climax. Ask your partner what else you can do to help him get there. Maybe it’s using your hands, penetration, or maybe he’s fine not orgasming at all. Practice makes perfect. If you can’t get him to orgasm the first time around, you can try again later. He most certainly will not mind.

It’s a Mouthful, We Know

Great oral sex will rock your world. Both men and women agree that one of their favorite sexual activities is giving or receiving head. The key to a fast blowjob that won’t break your neck or leave you exhausted is providing the maximum level of pleasure (lockjaw is no joke). Do this by experimenting with different techniques that will make him shudder. The better he feels, the easier your job will be. But while orgasm is the goal, it’s not the most important aspect of great oral sex. Sometimes, oral is just the precursor to more penetrative activities. Continue to experiment with your fast blowjob techniques until you find what works best for both of you.