If ever you have wanted to don a cowgirl hat and ride a horse, you’re gonna like the reverse cowgirl position. Don’t worry, you don’t need to know how to actually ride a horse to do the reverse cowgirl position. The kind of riding you’ll be doing will be, uh, a bit different than the kind of riding you’ll learn at a horse ranch. The reverse cowgirl position is a fun and sexy way to ride your partner while he enjoys the view of your cowgirl bottom. If you’re a lady who likes to be on top, then the reverse cowgirl position will come easy for you. So, put on your cowgirl hat and boots and learn how to ride him cowgirl style.
How To Do the Reverse Cowgirl Sex Position
As you might have guessed, the reverse cowgirl position is the cowgirl sex position (also called woman on top sex position), but in reverse. For those of you who don’t know what the cowgirl sex position is, check out our previous articles to freshen up your knowledge. For those of you who are familiar with cowgirl sex position, you might be wondering how exactly do you do the reverse cowgirl position? Well, to do the reverse cowgirl position, you must ride your partner’s penis while facing away from him. This means he'll be looking at your butt while you're looking at whatever you want to. Though the reverse cowgirl position could be incorporated into sex involving same-sex couples with the use of a dildo, for the purpose of this article we’ll be describing how to do the reverse cowgirl position between a male and female couple. In this case, the male partner will be lying on his back on the bed (or the floor, table, couch, grass, wherever you feel like getting it on) while the female partner climbs on top. She’ll straddle her partner facing away from him so that he gets an awesome view of her butt. Then, she’ll carefully lower down onto his penis and grind, hump, or bounce up and down like she is riding a horse, hence the name reverse cowgirl position.
Why He’ll Love It
Most men would agree that it is super sexy when their female partner gets on top and rides his penis to her satisfaction. When their partner is facing them, they get an awesome view of her enjoying herself while her breasts jiggle about. When she’s facing away from him, he gets easy access to her bum and his hands are free to do what he likes with it. He’ll also enjoy not having to do any work in the reverse cowgirl position. His female partner will be in charge of doing most of the action, so he’ll get to just lie back and relax. It could be a nice change of pace, especially if he is used to being on top all of the time. In the reverse cowgirl position, he gives up control to his partner and simply enjoys being ridden by his cowgirl.
Why She’ll Love It
Women who like being on top love the reverse cowgirl position because they are in control. There are few sex positions that give the female partner dominance, which the reverse cowgirl position is perfect for. Many women like woman-on-top sex positions because it allows them to control the pace, depth, and movement of penetration. The reverse cowgirl position is good for women who may sometimes experience pain during sex. With total control of the act, they can do what only feels good for them. Also, woman-on-top sex positions often produce more of a chance for clitoral stimulation, which the majority of women must have in order to orgasm. In the reverse cowgirl position, there may be even more of a chance to orgasm. This is because not only will they have more clitoral stimulation, but riding their partner’s penis in reverse may allow for G-spot stimulation. The G-spot is located in the upper front area of the vaginal wall. In the reverse cowgirl position, her partner’s penis will be curved back towards her, meaning it’s in perfect position for finding the sweet spot said to induce earth-shattering orgasms.
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Tips for Doing the Reverse Cowgirl Position
Less Chance of Performance Anxiety
Performance anxiety during sex is when either partner feels self-conscious about their skills in the bedroom. This usually stems from our desire to want to please our partner, naturally. We want to make our partner feel good, while also feeling good ourselves. Sometimes, however, we can be so worried about what our other partner is thinking during sex that we forget we are supposed to be enjoying ourselves. Men are more likely to experience performance anxiety, but women experience it as well. For women, most of our anxiety comes from how we look and how we think our partner sees us. We want to look sexy in the bedroom, but sometimes sex is messy and puts us in unflattering positions. The reverse cowgirl position is pretty much the perfect answer to performance anxiety for both men and women. Why? In the reverse cowgirl position, neither of you have to look at one another. While this may take some intimacy away from the act, it also means you don’t have to constantly search for signs of displeasure on your partner’s face. And for the ladies, the reverse cowgirl position means a lot of our trouble zones we’re sometimes self-conscious about (like our tummies or breasts) are facing away from our partner. This allows you to ride your man as vigorously as you want without needing to be aware of what trouble spots may be jiggling about.
Lean Forwards or Backwards
Leaning forward or leaning backward while riding your man in the reverse cowgirl position will change up the angle of entry. Changing it up this way will give you a different sensation and may feel better depending on what you prefer. Leaning forward more will give you a chance for deeper penetration. It will also place your butt more in line with your partner’s face, giving him an even better view of your beautiful derriere. Leaning backward while doing the reverse cowgirl position may give you a better chance at stimulating your G-spot. You will have to make sure that your partner’s penis is flexible enough. Though penile fractures are rare, they can happen if your partner’s penis is bent the wrong way or stretched too far. This can lead to a strain in the suspensory ligaments which are responsible for penis erection. You could also potentially injure your partner’s penis if you gain too much air while riding him and accidentally bend his penis while bouncing up and down. Though it’s not likely to happen, it is a possibility. The best way to avoid this problem is to maintain a steady pace and start out slow. This is especially true if you are new to doing the reverse cowgirl position. Always take it easy when learning a new sex position until you get more comfortable with it.
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Have Him Put in a Little Work
Riding your man reverse cowgirl position style can get tiring. While you will burn more calories while on top, it may be more work than you intended. Your partner can help you out by contributing a little bit of the action if he wants. He is welcome to lift his hips into you while you’re riding him to control more of the movement. This will give you a break from bouncing and grinding. This may work especially well if you lean back more while you’re on top of him. With your knees still straddling either side of him, lean your torso back towards him. You can place your hands on his chest behind you to help keep you stable. From here, he can thrust from below while you take a break. Your man may even prefer this switch-up as it will give him a chance to take back more control.
Get Creative
Because you’ll be facing away from your partner in the reverse cowgirl position, you’ll feel a little more uninhibited. If you want to add something extra to the reverse cowgirl position experience, try doing it in front of a mirror. You’ll be able to watch yourself perform as you grind and bounce on your partner’s penis, without being under his watchful eye. For some women, this could feel empowering. You’ll get to appreciate your body and may even feel sexier watching yourself get and give pleasure during sex. For some people, having sex in front of a mirror is a major turn-on. But if you’re not too keen on the idea of watching yourself have sex, you could opt to watch other people have sex. Instead of doing the reverse cowgirl position in front of a mirror, do it in front of your TV while watching porn. Watching it while you’re riding your man might be able to get you off faster, which is always a bonus.
Incorporate Some Kink
For ladies who like to play dominatrix, the reverse cowgirl position allows you to be in control. Add in a little kink to the mix and make your man be totally submissive to you. Use this as an opportunity to restrain your man’s wrists and ankles or place a blindfold over his eyes. We doubt he’s likely to object to being taken advantage of by you and will be more than willing to submit. Playing into dominant and submissive roles is a popular kink for many couples. It’s more common for the male partner to play the dominant role, but there are plenty of couples who like to switch roles every once in a while. If you’ve never tried role-playing before as the dominant, doing it while performing the reverse cowgirl position could be a good start.
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Positions Similar To Reverse Cowgirl Position
The Betty Rocker
In the Betty Rocker, you’ll start in the same position as the reverse cowgirl position. You will be straddling your partner while facing away from him. The only difference between the Betty Rocker and the reverse cowgirl position is a slight change in your posture. In the Betty Rocker, you will lean all the way forward until your chest is touching the top of his legs. He will have a perfect view of your butt as you rock back and forth on his penis. In doing so, you will get a different angle of penetration than you would in reverse cowgirl position. You will also get more clitoral stimulation from the Betty Rocker as there will be more friction between your clitoris and his hip bone. The Betty Rocker is best for slow, forward and backward or circular motions, though you can choose to ride him up and down if you prefer. How far forward you will be able to lean will depend on how flexible your partner’s penis is. Be sure to check in with him to be sure you are not straining his penis at an uncomfortable angle.
The Acrobat
As the female partner, you’ll need a fair amount of flexibility for the acrobat sex position. Regular yoga workouts will come in handy here, especially if you’re any good at doing a backbend. To do the acrobat sex position, start in reverse cowgirl position facing away from your partner straddling him, one knee on either side of his torso. From here, slowly lean back onto him until your back is lying against his chest. In this position, you will be very limited in your movements. You likely won’t be able to do much besides grinding your hips against his while he is inside of you. He will likely have to do some of the work himself if he wants to get more thrusting action. The acrobat is more for slow, sensual sex than it is for hardcore penetration. While you’re lying on your partner’s chest, you can reach your arms up and back around his neck. Meanwhile, he can wrap his arms around you and caress your body or play with your breasts. He can also use one of his hands to play with your clitoris to give you a little bit of clitoral stimulation. You could also choose to do this yourself if you prefer to masturbate. If you are not flexible enough to bend back completely onto your partner’s chest, you can modify by resting on your elbows or lifting your knees up.
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Thigh Tide
The thigh tide sex position is nearly identical to the reverse cowgirl position except that your partner will bend one knee while you’re riding him. You’ll then try to angle your body towards the bent knee so that you can grab onto it and grind your clitoris against his thigh. You may find it more comfortable to have something to hold onto while you’re on top and find that the extra clitoral stimulation helps get you off faster. This one might take a little bit of awkward maneuvering to get just right. Try getting into reverse cowgirl position first, then slowly swivel your body towards his bent knee. You should have one of your knees on the outside of his thigh with your other knee on the inside of his thigh between his legs. This will allow you to grind up against his thigh better. You will also experience a different angle of penetration that is slightly different than what you would have in the reverse cowgirl position.
Final Thoughts
The reverse cowgirl position is sexy and fun for multiple reasons. Being able to enjoy yourself during sex while not having to look at your partner is surprisingly hot and may even make for better sex. Besides that, you’ll be on top of your man, which is probably not what you’re used to. A lot of women find that being on top makes it easier for them to orgasm during sex because they have full control of the movements. It’s also easier for them to stimulate their clitoris, which is always a bonus in any sex position. Although you’re in charge when on top, you can also put your partner to work if you get tired. The reverse cowgirl position is a fun one to try when you and your partner are ready to do something a little different. It’s a fairly easy position to get into and doesn’t require a lot of flexibility from either partner. Should you want to take it up a notch, or find the reverse cowgirl position isn’t doing it for you, try one of the variations. You can still wear the cowgirl hat, even if you’re not technically doing the cowgirl sex position. As long as you are enjoying yourself, how you ride your man is up to you.
