Do you want to get the most out of your sexual life? Do you want to get better at pleasuring yourself, or are you or your partner struggling to orgasm during sex? Switching it up in the bedroom can lead to a happier and healthier relationship, but adding a sex toy or two can make a big difference in sexual performance and satisfaction. To make it easier for you to achieve that extra sexual pleasure, we’ve put together our favorite vibrating wand collection with some of the best personal vibrating wands that will be sure to take you over the edge!
Of course, you don’t have to be in a relationship to have a healthy sex life. There are many ways to find sexual pleasure with or without a partner, and it’s perfectly normal to set aside some time for pleasuring yourself, too (it’s vital to get to know your body intimately through self-pleasuring or masturbation). So, whether you’re looking to spice up your sex life or want a little help finding that extra pleasure when masturbating, vibrating wands can be a great sex tool for you. Keep reading to learn more about our favorite vibrating wand collection and how you can achieve more pleasure!
Our Favorite Vibrating Wand Collection: What Is a Vibrating Wand?
Vibrating wands are a sex toy designed to stimulate the clitoris, which has way more nerve endings than the vagina (approximately 8,000 of them!). Although women can certainly experience orgasm without one, a great vibrating wand can make it easier and less stressful to get to the point of climaxing. You might also hear vibrating wands referred to as vibrators, pulsating wands, or wand massagers—different names for the same kind of vibrating sex toy that delivers the best kind of pleasure.
Clitoral vs. Vaginal Orgasm: What Makes the Vibrating Wand a Great Sex Toy?
Of all of the different kinds of sex toys out there, the vibrating wand gets your clitoris stimulated to the point where you can get that intense release that is an orgasm. Clitoral stimulation is essential to sexual pleasure for most women, and many can’t orgasm without it. Because of the number of nerve endings, the clitoris is much more sensitive than the vagina.
Is vaginal orgasm possible? Vaginal orgasm happens when a woman climaxes from vaginal penetration and without any stimulation of the clitoris. While possible, it’s extremely rare. Some women can’t climax at all from vaginal stimulation alone. And it turns out that anatomy is to blame. Researchers have shown that it’s easier to climax from penetration or vaginal stimulation for women whose clitoris did not “drift” far from the vagina during gestation in the womb. The closer the clitoris (these researchers claim the “magic number” is 2.5 inches or slightly less than one inch), the harder it is to orgasm from penetration alone.
If you’re self-conscious about your ability to orgasm during sex, you’re certainly not alone. However, it should be clear that this is about your anatomy, which you have no control over! Even though vaginal orgasms can be difficult to reach during penetration, they’re certainly not impossible. With clitoral stimulation, vaginal orgasms become much easier to obtain. Although there are many ways to stimulate the clit during sex, including using friction (like rubbing) or fingering, there are also sex tools like vibrating wands for that purpose. Vibrating wands can offer a more intense experience with less effort, and who doesn’t want that?
The Vibrating Wand Is Perfect for Solo or Partnered Play
A vibrating wand or vibrating massager can be used for either solo or partnered play; there are no hard-set rules. For solo play or masturbation, a vibrating wand can deliver that intense experience you’ve been craving. Although it’s admittedly nice to use just your fingers sometimes, using a vibrating wand is an opportunity for you to let loose your wildest fantasies without fear of judgment. For the more inexperienced sex toy users out there, a magic wand can be a (magical) pleasuring tool for getting to know your body better. Pay special attention to how your body reacts to the vibrations in different areas and at different speeds or intervals. You have complete control over how fast, hard, or frequent you want the massager’s vibration to be and where you want it delivered! If you (like many women out there) struggle with reaching orgasm, a sex toy such as a vibrating wand can help you “get there” more consistently.
As wonderful as it is to play with a vibrating wand on your own, you can also use it in partnered play. Although experimenting with new positions is always a great option to keep things fun and spicy during sex, that alone might not do the trick if you’re feeling a little bored or under-stimulated in your sex life. That’s where the magic wand can come in handy (literally) and help both you and your partner enjoy your intimate time together more thoroughly.
We understand if it can be intimidating to introduce sex toys into the bedroom with your partner for the first time. Even if you masturbate on your own, masturbation can be an extremely private and intimate experience, and it can feel awkward to share this source of pleasure with someone else. However, don’t be nervous! Bringing sex toys into the bedroom should be a fun and exciting experience. Make sure to communicate with your partner about what you want to get out of the experience.
The magic vibrating wand doesn’t have only to provide clitoral pleasure; you can experiment with stimulating different parts of the body, male or female. There’s a certain level of intimacy in leaving it in the hands of your partner to explore all different parts of your body during sex. It shows that you trust them. On the other hand, they can relish the sense of importance and control they have over you and your body by moving the magic wand around or using it as a tool for teasing.
How To Use a Vibrating Wand
Using a vibrating wand on yourself or your partner is incredibly easy and user-friendly. Most newer models are rechargeable and cordless, so you don’t have to worry about a cord getting in the way or getting all tangled up. Even for those more traditional models with a cord, the cord is usually at least six feet long, long enough to plug in next to your bed for ample spreading room.
Turn the wand on and choose the vibration setting you prefer to operate. For those with a more sensitive clitoris, it might be good to start at the lowest setting and work your way up to experiment with your pleasure. If you didn’t know, overstimulation of the clitoris can be counterproductive and make it more difficult for some women to climax. Be aware of this when masturbating and practicing healthy communication with your partner during sex!
You can use a vibrating wand on your own while masturbating, but don’t be afraid to use it during sex, either! A vibrating wand can be an excellent tool for your partner to tease you or stimulate the clitoris during penetration. Although you can use it in conjunction with many different positions, it’s especially great for combination with doggy style, missionary, or cowgirl. These positions make it easy to pleasure the clitoris with the wand and help a woman climax during penetration with her partner!
For the partners out there who enjoy tied-up positions, you can use a vibrating wand for some extra intense teasing, too!
Our Favorite Vibrating Wand Collection
Now that you know why you should introduce a vibrating wand into the bedroom let’s get into which model to choose! There are many models out there, thousands even, and it can be challenging to know which one is best in terms of value, performance, and construction. We’ve compiled this brief list of our favorite vibrating wand models, including some of the best vibrating wands out on the market.
Once you have a vibrating wand next to your bed, you won’t ever want to be without it.
Original Magic Wand by Vibratex
The original vibrating magic wand by Vibratex is one of the best vibrating wands out there and, so, deserves to be at the top of our list in our favorite vibrating wand collection. This original magic wand is the upgraded version of the classic and original Hitachi Magic Wand. Because of its timelessness, it’s one of our favorites. It does better and lasts longer than other models. It’s more expensive than the other models on this list, but the quality is top-notch.
The original Magic Wand vibrator comes in a sleek white design that’s not only beautiful but inconspicuous. Because it’s an original model, it’s corded electric, but with a six-foot-long cord, that shouldn’t be an issue. Plus, the benefit of a corded vibrating wand means unlimited pleasure without remembering to charge between uses. That said, Vibratex recommends using the magic wand for twenty-five minutes at a time to avoid overheating. But that should be plenty of time to give you the pleasure you need and want!
Some of our favorite features of this model include that the upgraded version has enhanced flexibility. It’s not heavy, so using it puts minimal strain on your hands, arms, and wrists. There are two speeds, high and low, that run at approximately 6,000 and 5,000 vibrations per minute, respectively.
The Vibratex original Magic Wand consistently remains one of the best vibrating wands out there, so we’d be remiss not to include it in our favorite vibrating wand collection. It’s the model that everyone thinks of when they think “personal massager,” and for a good reason!
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Rechargeable Personal Wand by Luna
The second vibrating wand model to make it into our favorite vibrating wand collection is the rechargeable personal wand designed by Luna. With twenty different patterns and eight-speed options, it’s one of the most versatile vibrating wands on the market, with variations that will please everyone!
This personal vibrating wand is surprisingly quiet. Unlike the Vibratex original Magic Wand, it’s USB-rechargeable, so you don’t have to worry about any cords getting in the way of your pleasure. Although it has a long battery life (more than two hours!), it would be best if you still recharged it between pleasuring to avoid being stranded in the middle of a particularly great session.
Bottom line: the rechargeable personal wand by Luna is a fantastic product that’s sure to leave you feeling pleasured and relaxed. It comes in a cute color, and it’s super user-friendly. We particularly love that it’s rechargeable yet has surprisingly long battery life.
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Rechargeable Personal Massager (Large Edition) by Luna
Because we love Luna’s original personal rechargeable wand so much, we also had to include its big sister in our favorite vibrating wand collection! The large edition of the classic Luna vibrating wand is larger and more powerful, though it boasts the same 20 patterns and eight speeds, ideal for finding that perfect frequency to get you or your partner off.
This sex toy is sleek, ergonomic, quiet, and smooth. As Luna claims, “this vibrating adult sex toy will provide you with unparalleled pleasure.” As with the smaller version of this vibrating wand, this personal massager has an equally long battery life of 2+ hours for nonstop pleasure. As with other rechargeable models, you only need to plug in the USB charging cord to bring it back to a full battery charge. It is the perfect wand for those of you looking for more intense pleasure, though, we have to say, they make for a great gift, too!
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Rechargeable Personal Massager by VibeMax
Our fourth model on this list of the best vibrating wands is the rechargeable vibrating wand designed by Vibemax. This personal massager is powerful! We all know what the company means when they say it “melts away muscle tension fast”!
Unlike some other models on this list, the VibeMax wand has a much more compact design, so it’s great for taking it with you on the go or keeping it close by in your nightstand drawer. This model is cordless and hassle-free, with a battery life of up to three hours, making this the longest-lasting vibrating wand on this list of our favorite vibrating wands.
As with the two models from Luna, the VibeMax personal massager offers twenty different pulse patterns and eight varying speeds, so you can find that perfectly unique vibration pattern that works best for you. It’s surprisingly quiet and waterproof, so it handles any situation you throw at it (shower play, anyone?)! Plus, it’s remarkably quiet and comes with a one-year warranty! So, if you have any problems with the “massager,” you can either get it replaced or refunded. Now, that’s quality customer service!
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Using Your New Vibrating Wand
Whether you’re new to bringing sex toys into the bedroom or you’re already a sex toy fanatic, a vibrating magic wand is a perfect tool for achieving intense sexual pleasure in the bedroom time and time again. If you’ve been wondering whether you should get a vibrating wand, stop overthinking it and do it! In this article, we’ve given you four of the best wand vibrators to choose from so that you don’t have to do the work of sifting through thousands of models, each with different functions, features, and battery lives. The last thing you want is to buy a vibrating wand that seems magical online, only to have it fail the very first time you use it. How disappointing would that be? You might be afraid to try using another vibrating wand as a result, and that would be a real shame.
We sincerely hope that you’ll be able to find the pleasure you (and your partner) deserve with the help of a vibrating wand. These models perform, and they’ll make it that much easier to have mind-blowing sex. Trust us, you don’t know what you’re missing!
When you first get your wand, you clean it with a sex toy cleaner to make sure it’s sanitary and safe to use. Similarly, clean it thoroughly after every use to reduce the risk of sexually transmitted diseases. Plus, it’s just nicer when your sex toy stays clean. When you first get the vibrating wand, it’s a good idea to take some time to test it out and explore its functions and patterns before you bring it into partner play. Although there’s nothing wrong with discovering a new sex toy together, it can be good to understand your pleasure first and what works best to communicate that in a healthy way to your partner. Or, you know, use the vibrating wand on yourself whenever you feel like being pleasured! Nothing but good vibrations here!
